🥰Love may be delicate, arduous, sturdy, fierce and daring.

Your horse has priorities. These are like rungs on a ladder, and if you skip one, issues don’t work nicely.

Many empathetic riders unintentionally skip the second rung.

They need their horse to really feel protected and safe, however they make the error of making an attempt to create security with ‘delicate’ love.

Love is superb, but it surely additionally seems in varied methods.

Love could be a type hug, an excellent brushing, an additional scratch.

Love may be cleansing a stall or doctoring a wound.

Love may be getting some train, or chopping again on pasture time to stop weight problems and founder.

Love may be delicate, arduous, sturdy, fierce and daring.

Many instances once we take a look at our horses, we would like like to be delicate, heat, and candy… like a muzzle.🥰

And we overlook that they’re trying again at us, questioning what we’re product of.

Within the quiet moments, all appears nicely.

💥However when a loud noise cracks, or one other horse bolts, or an surprising occasion occurs, they aren’t trying to find delicate. They’re searching for sturdy.

And they’ll both discover it from you, or they may look elsewhere. To a herd mate, or to their very own resolution; to bolt, to balk, to go away.

When your horse exams you, he’s searching for security. For those who can deal with him, you possibly can most likely deal with that ‘factor’ too.

❤️ Love him stronger in these moments.

The love {that a} trainer has for a scholar after they problem her to do extra.

The love a coach exhibits after they ask an athlete for ‘only one extra’, revealing to the athlete that they’d yet one more in them.

Love that’s fierce, sturdy and daring is what creates security to your horse.
They don’t seem to be repelled by this power, they’re drawn to it.

Fierce doesn’t imply forceful, sturdy doesn’t imply harsh, daring doesn’t imply crude… not when they’re delivered with love.

Your horse can deal with sturdy. In truth, he’s searching for it.

Don’t skip creating security to your horse. Present up stronger for him, and also you.

You’ll be amazed at how horses are drawn to this type of love.

Trip with Religion,

Stacy Westfall